I just took a love language quiz for like the fifth time ever and got the same results I normally do, my love languages are quality time and physical touch.
Translation: I’m a needy ass bitch.
I know this, and yet somehow I still end up trying to downplay that shit.
Like your girl loves to just kick it and be annoying, and when it comes to romantic partners, I’m touchy-feely AF.
I just really enjoy the presence of certain people, only certain people. Otherwise, I don’t like people and hate socializing.
I can’t really explain my obsession with physical touch but it brings me joy, it makes me feel comfortable and safe and idk.
So yeah, I’m a needy bitch, which is why I’ve been horrible at casual things thus far. People tend to think I’m more enamored with them than I actually am (and by “people” I mean boys). They take my need for quality time and consistency as a sign that I’m rushing a relationship (knowing damn well half of them aren’t worthy of being my man).
Even though boys are definitely stupid and mostly to blame for the poor state of my romantic life, I take some of the blame because I acknowledge my neediness.
Now I just need them to read this so they can better understand the real facts of life lol.